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48 Flirty “would you rather” questions to break the ice

Do you want to avoid awkward silences with the person you like? Are you embarrassed to flirt but wish to move forward in the relationship? Break the ice by proposing to play flirty “would you rather” questions. This game will be the perfect excuse to create an intimate atmosphere and better understand the other person.

Moreover, you can choose the type of questions according to the kind of relationship you have. If you want to flirt, create a romantic atmosphere, start a conversation, or get to know the other person in-depth, feel free to use the following questions. This game for couples can make for an unforgettable evening.

Flirty “would you rather” questions for beginners

flirty would you rather questions for beginners
  • Would you prefer to organize a date in detail or be spontaneous?
  • Would you rather be with someone very similar to you so they understand you or someone very different from whom you can learn new things?
  • Would you instead go on a classic, elegant date or go for a walk surrounded by nature?
  • Would you rather spend a weekend in a house with all the comforts or go on an express trip?
  • Would you rather spend a whole evening preparing dinner or order a fast meal at home?
  • Would you rather cook and have the other person clean up or have the other person cook and you do the dishes?
  • Would you rather go to the movies or Netflix and chill?
  • Would you rather be rich or find true love?
  • Would you rather be ugly and know they are with you because they love you, or be pretty and not know if they love you?
  • Would you instead go out for breakfast or dinner?
  • Would you rather have your partner give you space when you argue or have them seek you out immediately?
  • Do you prefer a person with an active social life or a lone wolf?
  • Do you prefer to know the details of your partner’s past relationships, or are some things better left untouched?
  • Would you rather be with a person who is affectionate all the time or shows it in a deeply passionate way on rare occasions?
  • Would you rather have your partner offer to accompany you when you go out alone or have your space?
  • Would you rather clarify your intentions from the beginning or keep the mystery and tension for a little while?

If you already know each other a little better and would like to learn more intimate and romantic things, try these questions:

Cheesy “would you rather” questions

flirty would you rather questions cheesy
  • Would you rather sleep cuddled up with someone or sleep alone in another bed?
  • Would you rather be with someone who brags about you on social networks or someone who never shares photos of you?
  • Would you rather receive a bouquet or a box of chocolates?
  • Would you prefer to be surprised with an unexpected trip and have 5 minutes to prepare for it or be warned in advance?
  • Would you rather be with someone who remembers every detail about you or who never fails to surprise you?
  • Would you rather make or get a private or public proposal?
  • Would you rather be kissed by family and co-workers or not show affection in public?
  • Would you instead greet me with a kiss or a hug?
  • Would you rather involve your family in your relationship from the beginning or wait a few months?
  • Would you rather move in with your partner and then get married or vice versa?
  • Would you rather have your partner involved in your life, for example, going to the gym with you, or would you rather keep your separate ways? 

Do you dare to play with spicy questions? You might discover an unknown side of your partner:

Spicy flirty “would you rather” questions

  • Would you rather have lots of kisses or one big kiss?
  • Would you rather play sexy games outside or keep them intimate at home? 
  • Would you rather be with someone who wants to try new things in bed or play it safe?
  • Would you rather shower alone or with your partner?
  • Would you rather do “you know what” at night or in the morning?
  • Would you rather do “you know what” in summer or winter?
  • Would you rather talk about boundaries in bed before or after the action?
  • Would you rather have a monogamous relationship, or are you open to trying polygamy?
  • Would you rather soft play or go further?
  • Would you rather role-play or use the traditional style?
flirty would you rather questions spicy

The hard questions are the ones that help us get to know a person. Let yourself be surprised (and surprised too) by your partner:

Deep “would you rather” questions

  • Would you rather have your heart broken or break the heart of someone you love?
  • Would you rather always know the truth or be aware that sometimes you are being lied to?
  • Would you instead be accepted by your partner’s friends or family?
  • Would you rather fall in love with your best friend or fall in love first and be his/her best friend later?
  • Would you instead move to your partner’s country or have your partner move to your country?
  • Would you rather have a small fight every day with your partner or a huge fight every month?
  • Would you rather talk all day by text with your partner or see each other for only 15 minutes at the end of the day?
  • Would you rather spend a weekend in a mansion or a week on the road sleeping in the car?
  • Would you rather date someone who is clear about their intentions from the beginning or decide as the relationship progresses?
  • Would you rather be with a passionate, dreamy person or a disciplined and focused person?
  • Do you prefer adventure or stability?

Flirty “would you rather” questions: The bottom line

There you have it! If you want to get to know your partner better, these flirty “would you rather” questions can significantly help. Do not forget to be respectful and never ask anything that could make your partner uncomfortable. And most importantly, have fun!

Have you ever played “Would You Rather” with your partner? What are some of the questions you have asked? Let us know in the comments below!