If there’s one thing we girls like more than being attractive in general to the people we like, it’s that the guy we like regrets losing us. Let that guy who didn’t know how to take care of you and treat you well regret that he didn’t know how to keep you in his life and become the one that got away while living your best life. Here’s everything it takes to be the kind of girl guys regret losing.
To become that iconic type of girl, keep reading this article, where we reveal what makes a girl unforgettable:
What is the kind of girl guys regret losing like? 10 common characteristics
It’s not about being the typical pitiful victim girl, and it’s not about trying to make your guy feel guilty because that feeling will be short-lived, and you’ll be undercutting him. Nor is it about overreacting and being with a different guy every day, pretending everything is fine.
As we will explain at the end of the article, the key is to focus on yourself. These are the characteristics that define this unique type of girl:
1. Independent girl
A girl who doesn’t need anyone. You can love a person very much and suffer for losing her because that means it matters. But being a dependent person is very different. Don’t grovel, don’t go behind.
Do you want to appear and be an independent girl? Show the world that you go on with your life even if a relationship ends. Being alone or single at Christmas but still happy is the ultimate challenge.
You don’t abandon yourself. Continue your hobbies, take care of yourself and your friends, and move on. This behavior will make you appear to be unattainable and independent.
2. Self-confident girl
Anyone who respects herself and can overcome self-esteem issues will accept her worth. Not the value that others choose to give us.
If a guy mistreats you, it doesn’t mean that you are worth little, but he doesn’t know how to value you. So show that you know your self-worth by not giving second chances or going back repeatedly.
Love yourself, and don’t accept less than you deserve. You’ll make more than one guy lose his mind on the way.
3. Strong personality girl
So much for the classic movie story of the complacent, submissive girl.
Although they can be tricky at times, the best girls are the ones who are true to their principles, to the way they are, including their quirks. That’s not to say that you must let your head go or lose your way. But you should be true to yourself, your standards, and your way of being and not change to please anyone.
4. Honest girl who doesn’t overshare
It’s about finding the middle ground. You want to be a girl who knows how to communicate and is honest and open but knows how to set limits for herself. Don’t tell everyone about your insecurities, fears, or traumas to appear more vulnerable or be liked.
Show that you are a girl without misgivings, open but mature.
5. Confident girl
No more stereotypical girl is full of physical and personal self-esteem problems. There is nothing more attractive and irresistible than a self-confident person. If you start seeing flaws in yourself and try to hide them, you will reflect your weaknesses on others by making them more visible.
If you are not ashamed of them, other people will get used to it and not see it as a flaw but as a virtue, the fact that you can overcome insecurities and love yourself even if society tells you otherwise. This behavior makes a girl unique.
6. The best friend type of girl
Tip: To be unforgettable, you must be the perfect best friend type. That girl you can count on, who is there through thick and thin, makes you laugh: a loyal, kind, funny friend—a confidant.
7. Open-minded girl
Just because you have a strong personality and are faithful to your principles doesn’t mean you have to be closed-minded.
It would help if you always were willing to listen, discuss, and reflect. Show that you always have a margin of error, that you can put yourself in the other person’s shoes, and that you can change your mind if something convinces you.
8. Authentic girl
You must have a personality trait that sets you apart from the rest. We all have something but tend to hide it or play it down. We try to blend in with the rest, making ourselves almost invisible. Let the real you come out, setting you apart from the rest. Accept that this may make other people less accepting of you, but it is essential to be true to yourself.
9. Affectionate girl
Again, it’s about finding the middle ground. Don’t be the girl who uses her affectionate personality to get too close to people or the one who is always playing hard to get. Be a girl who knows when to give a hug and when to say the right words to make people feel better. Someone who knows how to leave an impression.
10. Challenging but not arrogant girl
Energetic, active, and challenging girls awaken something that not many guys can resist. Always without being pretentious or overly desirous. In line with being true to yourself and original, don’t be the typical easy girl but show that you are your own. And avoid overdoing it to the point where you become that type of girl who intimidates guys.
Conclusion: How to become the kind of girl guys regret losing
The key to making yourself unforgettable is to be your priority. Discover yourself, and even if you like someone else, stick to your plans, dedicating time and love to yourself.
If you live your life thinking about attracting others, you will be sacrificing energy, time, and love for yourself, not allowing yourself to be attractive. So work on overcoming your insecurities, loving yourself, and learning to set limits for yourself and others.
Whatever you do, don’t change for anyone else. Be the unique and original girl you are, and the rest will follow.